Friends Find a Seat at the Table

The following blog post was contributed by Miranda Cooper, a student at Williams College and seasonal tour guide at The Mount. 

People from all walks of life come to The Mount during the summer to immerse themselves in a bit of Edith Wharton’s legacy. We see people of all ages and Picture1from all kinds of places. There are a few trends, though, and one of them is that we often see groups of friends who have come together to visit our beautiful treasure in our lovely corner of Lenox. Often, these are groups of women who have been taking trips together for years.

My first memorable encounter like this occurred on an ordinary June day when I met four ladies who engaged me in conversation. I learned that they had all attended Wellesley College together and graduated in 1951, and that for decades they have been getting together during the summers to visit different places.

A few weeks later, I found myself having lunch with a lovely group of women (who told me to remember them as the “ie’s,” because their names all ended in “-ie”) who treated me to lunch, so that we could continue the conversation that had begun on my tour. These ladies had attended Mount Saint Scholastica, a small women’s college in Kansas where they were all roommates, and they too take an annual trip. I was deeply touched by their undeniably strong friendship with one another, a friendship that had endured for decades and which still clearly brings them so much joy.

Picture2So what is it about The Mount that attracts lifelong friends? And why is it that many of these groups of friends are all female, and even attended women’s colleges together? It could be pure coincidence… but I doubt it. The more I thought about it, the more it made sense: of course the beautiful home of the first woman ever to win a Pulitzer for fiction would be a logical choice of destination for groups of women who have obvious appreciation for the power of women’s education and the literary and cultural legacies of groundbreaking female intellectuals. But more than that, The Mount is a place deeply rooted in friendship. All of our guests leave The Mount knowing that Edith Wharton treasured her close friends; one of the first comments guests usually make in the dining room concerns the surprisingly small round table, which Wharton liked because it allowed her to have intimate gatherings.

Miranda Cooper
Miranda Cooper

The Mount is not only a place of literary greatness and stunning beauty; it is a place of friendship. It was built in 1902 as a place where Edith Wharton’s dearest friends could gather and enjoy lounging in the drawing room or sipping tea on the terrace. And in 2014, groups of lifelong friends can enjoy those same experiences. The Mount is still a place where people who care about one another can enjoy one another’s company, a place where groups of friends like the Wellesley ladies and the “ie’s” can come together to reminisce about their college years and pick up where they left off one, two, or twenty years ago. And I think that’s exactly how Edith Wharton would have liked it.